"A new beginning" - definitely read this article can change your life (Rules of Success)

In life, we have only 3500 days (9 years and 6 months) for ourselves! 

The World Bank has made this assessment assuming the average age of a person is 78 years, according to which we have only 9 years and 6 months for ourselves. According to this assessment, on average, 29 years in sleep, 3-4 years in education, 10-12 years in employment, 9-10 years in entertainment, 15-18 years in other daily activities like eating, traveling, daily work, home Is spent in work etc. In this way, we have only 3500 days or 84,000 hours to fulfill our dreams and do something.

"The most valuable thing in the world is time". But currently most people are living a life of despair and they are waiting that there will be a miracle in their life, which will change their destitute life. Friends, that miracle will start from today and now and the person who performs that miracle is you, because no one other than you can do that miracle.

For this beginning, we have to change our thinking and beliefs, because

"What happens to us is what we know." "What happens to us is what we believe."

Friends, according to scientists, the body of a bumblebee is very heavy, so according to the rules of science, it cannot fly. But the bumblebee does not know this and believes that he can fly, so he can fly.

First of all, we have to change the wrong belief that what happens to us is written in Bhagya. Because if it were, we would not have been worshiping God today but would have been giving badmons to him.

We are responsible for whatever happens to us (We are responsible for what we are), so being happy or not depends on us.

If a person thinks that whatever happens to us is not in our hands, then that person should either change this misconception (Wrong Belief) or do not read this article (English article) further.

Rule of Life :- 

We are going to make a new beginning and for this we have to follow some rules. These rules will change your life. 

(Self Confidence): -

Confidence means "Believe in Yourself" (Believe in Yourself). Friends, having self-confidence in our life is as important as having a fragrance in a flower, without self-confidence, our life becomes like a living corpse. No matter how talented a person is, he cannot do anything without confidence. Self-confidence is the foundation of success, due to lack of self-confidence a person doubts the work done by him. Self Confidence is with the person who is satisfied with himself and possesses the values ​​of determination, hardwork and focus, courage, commitment, commitment.

How To Improve Self Confidence :-

1. Believe in yourself (Believe in Yourself), make goals (make smart goals) and commit to accomplish them. When you meet the Goals you have made, it increases your self confidence many times.

2. Be Happy, Motivate Yourself, Don't be unhappy with Failure and learn from it because "experience always comes from bad experience"

3. Think positively, be polite and start the day with a good attitude (starting the day with a positive attitude).

4. Nothing is impossible in this world - Nothing is Impossible in this world | The biggest enemy of self-confidence is the "fear" of failure in doing any task and to remove fear, then do the task in which you are afraid.

5. Tell the truth, be honest, do not smoke, get involved with nature, do good work, help the needy. Because such actions give you positive power, on the other hand, wrong actions and bad habits on the other hand, reduces our confidence.

6. Do the work in which you are interested and try to take your career in the same direction in which you are interested.

7. Live in present, think positively, make good friends, befriend children, self-think.

(Independence): -

Freedom means independent thinking and self-reliance.

"Dependency is the biggest enemy of our happiness, and the reason for the decrease of happiness in the present is the increase of dependency".

"What will people say is the biggest disease (Sabse bada rog kya kahenge log)": - Most people think many times before doing any work that what people will think or say about them by doing that task and hence they are unable to take any decision and keep thinking and time like water from their hands. Escapes. Such people later regret it. Therefore, do not think too much friends, do what you think is right, because there will be hardly any work that will be liked by all people together. 

Control your happiness yourself: - At present, the happiness of most people depends on the circumstances. Such people become happy in favorable conditions and sad in adverse situations. For example, if a person's work becomes something, then he becomes happy and unhappy if the work is not made. Friends, be happy in every situation because it is in our hands to try, but the result or situation is not in our hands. Whatever the situation may be favorable or unfavorable, but its response should be good because it is in our hands to respond.

Become self-reliant: - Friends dependence is the enemy of happiness, so as far as possible reduce expectations from others, do your own work and adopt self-reliance, should not be saddened by the actions or thoughts of others because the thoughts or deeds of others are not under our control.

(Live in Present): - Friends, we get 70,000 to 90000 thoughts a day and our success and failure depends on the quality of these thoughts. According to scientists, 70% to 90% of the time of most people goes into thinking of past, future and futile things. The past gives us experience and we have to plan for the future, but this does not mean that we spend all our time in this. Friends, we should stay in the present and make it the best because neither past nor future we have control.

"If you want to be happy and be successful, then stop thinking about something that we don't have control over"

(Hard work and Focus): - 

Friends, a scholar has said that success can only be found in the dictionary before hard work. Hard work does not mean just physical work, hard work can be both physical and mental. Experience says that mental hard work is more valuable than physical hard work.

Some people make the target too big but do not work hard and then keep changing their targets. Such people only continue to make plans.

With hard work and dedication, the most difficult task becomes easy. If the goal is to be attained, then the obstacles that have to be overcome will have to be overcome, you will have to work hard and try again and again with determination.

"The only means of survival for unsuccessful people is that they change their goals in case of trouble."

There are some people who work hard but once they fail, they leave the work in the middle of frustration, so along with hard work, it is very important to have a commitment and determination.

"If a person is not able to succeed even after doing that task again, it means that his way of working is wrong and he needs to work hard." 

Transaction efficiency: -

A practical person fills the environment with happiness wherever he goes, such people are seen from the point of view of society. Such people behave with gentleness and smile and are always ready to help. Etiquette is the best beauty without which a person is limited only to himself and the society gives him the award named "selfish".

"When the number of your friends increases, then understand that you have learned the magic of practicality."

A courtesy person goes to any area and becomes his friend, who is ready to die if he needs it.

Character is the foundation of practicality and a person without character can never become courtesy. Character is the shadow of a person, and in society, a person is identified not by face but by character. Character is formed by moral values, values, education and habits.

The most important feature of practical people is that they are always ready to help.

Conversation efficiency is an important part of tact. Vani has the power to dissolve the sweetness in the atmosphere and fill it with happiness or spark it with fire.

"Words can change the world"

Talking thoughtfully, saying more words in less words, not talking in vain, finding goodness, praising, listening and giving importance to others, being polite, accepting mistakes, etc. are some basic rules of conversation. 

There is so much power in these five rules that they will change your life (change your life) and will awaken the power to turn your dreams into reality. Just one thing in the end

"Help the needy, because you know tomorrow you need someone's help"